So if he/she dumps you saying 'let's just be friends' or 'i'm not ready for a commitment yet', don't go crying your eyeballs out thinking that it's the end of the world or questioning was it something you did wrong and start blaming yourself or all that nonsense. There are tons of guys out there that might just be THE ONE for you! Trust me. Regardless of whatever reason that person left you, in the end it's actually his/her loss, not yours. Break-ups are supposed to make you more mature. Not the other way around. If there's one(or more) things I've learned from my own past experience is :
- 1. Don't get involved in a relationship when you're in school(especially during important years like SPM year!) because puppy love never lasts(well some do, but very unlikely).
- 2. Don't get into a relationship that your family(your mom especially!) does not approve of.
- 3. Don't be in a relationship where you don't feel the freedom to be yourself, ie. making ugly faces or being silly around him.
- 4. Love Allah, your family, and yourself first before anything else.
That's all for today folks! :) Have a great day! xx