Thursday, 2 August 2012

On Being Married


After recently getting married, the most frequently asked question I get is "best tak kahwin?" and "how is it like being a Mrs??"

I usually just answer "BEEEEEEEEEEESSSSSSSSSSTTTT" with a huge smile on my face!  like this \(^_____^)/

*tehee

Anyways, you know how people say marriage is not just a bed of roses? It's not. [so far] It's a bed of gazillion roses and lavenders and tulips and all the flowers you can think of! It's like a beautiful dream that I never want to wake up from. Its like having your bestfriend with you at all times. It's like falling in love over and over again each day of your life. Its also a lot of fun! We argue on what to eat, what movies to watch, what songs to listen to in the car(btw he hates my song choices and I hate his, so to be fair-we alternate songs/radio stations while driving and we make fun of each others song choices all the time) Sometimes when we need to clean the house or go out to buy groceries, we'll plan and plot who's going to do what, like it's some kind of quest or game or something.


We've been married for only a month now and we're still getting to know each other more..how should I put it, 'thoroughly'?... hehe..everyday I discover/learn new things I never knew about my husband. Yeah I know, we've known each other for almost 6 years, how could I not know him right?.. But trust me, in 6 years you might only know maybe like 10% of the person you marry..the other 90% comes after you live together. Which isn't a bad idea ofcourse, given the freedom of a halal relationship.


I can't stop smiling, thinking of our experience as husband & wife these past 4 weeks. Like when we do congregational prayer together and he is the imam. It's something I always look forward to and enjoy. When he recites the wirid after prayer, he always holds my hand, and stares into my eyes while doing so. It makes me feel all warm and fuzzy inside. And that time when we moved into our apartment and we were cleaning the house. I was mopping the floor, he was cleaning the ceiling fan, and I remember 'Dance With My Father Again' by Luthor Vandross playing in the background. All of a sudden he appears behind me, twirls me around, grabs me by the waist and holds my hand gently. and we slowdance to the song. I don't know why, at that moment it made me cry. It was like the whole world stopped and all I could see was him. Everything around just dissapeared.

I can't believe how much I'm in love with you, my husband.


Is this what true love feels like?


Rasulallah SAW said : When a husband and wife look at each other with love, Allah looks at both of them with Mercy.

[Bukhari]


27 comments:

  1. Tahniah Aishah..terharu bila baca ur post..:)

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  2. Mashallah that is soo cute! Congrats on the wedding!

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  3. Well done, jazakAllah khair. My latest bloglet is on Ahadeeth Regarding Ramadhan

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  4. sweet :)
    Congrats dear
    I'll pray 4 your happiness. Insyaallah

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  5. aishah..nak nangis boleh. sebab terharu. nak kahwin juga. hehe :')

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  6. Masha'Allah this is so amazing to read.

    XO Arezu

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  7. Soooo cute, Aishah! May Allah swt keep you two happy always. Ameen.

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  8. :') bestnyeeeeee. nak nangis jugak huuuu so so happy for you and fiq!

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  9. awww you are a different person now eci. smorang nmpk ecah makin happy hihihi. ecah, x batai wuduk ka bace wirid sambil pegang tangan? hahahah

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    1. pegang tangan atas telekung je tapi:)

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  10. may Allah bless both of u..... love till jannah!

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  11. thank you for the lovely wishes..jazakallah khair...amiiiiiiiiiin ya rabbal alamiin<3

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  12. Awwww this is the sweetest ever, hahah hope I find such a nice husband inshallah. Btw I love your blog and Inshallah your love will last forever <3 Ramadan Kariim sister lots of love from Sweden!

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  13. Barakallah aisyah. Can feel the happiness even though i'm not in the situation yet.insyaAllah, one day :)

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  14. awwwwww brings back all those memories :).my marriage was planned by my dad.thou we knew each other only as friends before..so love came after marriage...i remember being swept away every time me looked into each others eyes

    congratulations my dear sis

    love
    sarah (ammarahijabi )

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  15. I Love to see Love!! Mashaallah mabrok dear!! May Allah shower his mercy and blessings on your marriage continuously, and may he make the love between you grow more and more! ALLAHUMMA AMEEN! <3

    xoxo
    Imani

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  16. oh, teharunya baca entry kak aishah yg ni, urmm sweet..

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  17. Aishahhhh!!! I'm so happy for youuu!! I pray so that the sparks will never die, and may you have an amazing marriage! You deserve it hun! :D

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  18. congratulations on your marriage sis,
    wishing you a blessed Ramadan
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  19. MachAllah!
    Soooo happyyyyy for you

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  20. I am so happy for you - I hope inshallah you will always be this truly happy - your husband sounds like a very good man!

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  21. Machallah . All those words made me cry ... this is what i m looking for , this is how i want to feel ... Congratulations .

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  22. Masyaallah. Such great happiness from Allah (:

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  23. This was so cute! Congrats on your marriage <3

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  24. I've been married for 15 years, but honestly, your words are so beautiful- it made me cry. May you continue to experience this joy and wonder in your relationship. May Allah bless your marriage abundantly Insha-Allah.

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